Like it or not, Facebook is the social norm in higher education/college/the post graduation workforce. When you start moving through the blogosphere, one can begin to pick up the cynicism surrounding Facebook. How can they sustain their business model? And for that matter, why the hell am I giving out my private information just so that Facebook can make a profit?
Tyme White from Not Too Geeky wrote several articles critical of Facebook and I am here to critique them. Why is Facebook so widely rejected amongst bloggers? The short and simple answer is because they are geeks. The long answer is much harder and more complicated to explain to someone who is either out of the loop or not a member of this generation.
Who Uses Facebook?
Alright let’s go down the list…Tyme tries to argue that someone who spends their time online/is a geek should be a perfect fit for Facebook. No no no, that assumption is probably the farthest from the truth. People by nature are sociable beings. If you’re a person who likes to spend time online, chances are that you already spend your time talking to people through BBS’s/World of Warcraft or passively through the absorption of television and online news.
Why would a geeky person need to expunge a whole set of energy on Facebook when he already has an online community/real life friends to deal with in the first place? In the case of an internet sociopath, why would that person join a community full of people who ostracized him in the real world? They wouldn’t.
Your Personal Brand
When you create a Facebook profile page, you upload photos, put down your favorite movies and quotes. That profile becomes your person brand. People who want to date you judge you, employers look for naughty behavior and parents are defriended. (no offense mom you’re a cool lady) Part of Facebook’s business plan is hyper analyze your brand to sell you ads.
And this is where I think the generation gap comes into play. The older you are the odds are in the person’s favor they understand how important their brand is. They worked hard to build their career, reputation (or brand). Jeopardizing their brand can mean the difference between having a roof over their head and the mortgage being paid.
And this is where people in the older generation have a hard time comprehending new lines of thinking. Reputations follow you throughout life, lead to more friendships and eventually jobs and marriage. Tyme’s statement implies that we young people are more loose with our personal information and because of this, we are putting ourselves at risk for scrutiny or even stalking.
Well yes you are putting yourself at risk. When you talk to someone you don’t know about your favorite book you put your reputation at risk. When you talk to a stranger about where you work, you put yourself in potential physical risk. But come on, people are pretty darn smart and I do believe that the majority of people are smart enough to avoid unnecessary risk.
Your Personal Information has Monetary Value
Because Facebook is a free service, a user must agree to give up their personal information in exchange for the privilege of using Facebook. It’s called an exchange relationship and it’s how business works. Tyme suggests in her post that a person should get a share of the ad revenue from Facebook. Why? The service is free why should Facebook pay you to use it?
Get Your Friends to Comment on Your Blog
Because the blunt honest truth: if your friends are that valuable on Facebook they have the same value on your blog.
No I’m pretty sure that my friends wouldn’t want to comment on my blog. On this blog I talk about the web and technology. Most of the them aren’t into this sort of stuff and would be baffled if I asked them to use the Wordpress commenting system. They’ve already got enough homework.
The reason why Facebook is in such a powerful position is because people don’t have time to maintain their own personal brand. aka build our own website/blog. Facebook is a facilitator for that and we give up personal information in exchange for the privilege to use their service. It’s convenient.
Is Facebook on the Way Out?
I doubt it. Does Facebook really care if people like Dave Winer, an old guy and Jason Calicanus delete their accounts? People who aren’t even part of their core demographic? Nor the people who wouldn’t have signed up for an account if it were not for these people? Facebook probably does not care. A twenty year old sorority girl probably has more monetary value on Facebook than a highly respected thirty nine year old Washington Post columnist. Why? Because that young person is probably going to generate more page views.
Uncomfortable Stereotypes About Facebook Applications
Do you have eccentric friends? I have some and the people who send me Pirate vs. Ninja application invites are usually those people. I get no such invitations from my less eccentric friends. Why are bloggers like Paul Stamatious constantly bombarded with app invites? Probably because the majority of bloggers have a lot of eccentric friends. We are on the web and we are geeks so this shouldn’t come as a big surprise.
Not that we don’t love you eccentric friends but I think that there is a terrible mis perception about the “rest of facebook”. A lot of people I know don’t get a lot of application invites. I am a geek but I do not zombie hug.
Is Facebook Putting You at Risk For Getting a Job?
I think you put yourself at more risk by having a blog. When you write on a blog you put your personal beliefs out there for the whole world to see. If an employer judges your posts and thinks that you are at all creepy/dangerous, then that employer is not going to hire you.
If I remember correctly, there was a user in 9rules named dook that posted a note about how he got fired from his job because of something that he wrote. In a competitive job environment, an employer could look at such a post to justify firing someone. A scary piece of writing might be more incriminating than a scandalous facebook picture. Yeah it’s uncomfortable but people are pretty judgmental. It’s pretty harsh but that is a part of life.
Do you have your game on?
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